How to Kiss: Kissing tips for Men and Women

How to Kiss

What’s the difference between a kiss that goes flat and a kiss that tickles the toes? Some kisses you can feel tingle up your spine, while others feel like the mechanical meeting of lips. Learning how to kiss can be a daunting experience, especially getting that first kiss. Don’t panic though! This article will shed light on kissing tips – how to kiss, get your first kiss, as well as how, and when to kiss a girl / guy.

How to Kiss: Before the First Kiss

Before your first kiss make sure your lips look inviting. Guys, if you want to kiss a girl, none will share the feeling if your lips are dry and cracked. There are some basic kissing tips that both men and women can follow to have more kissable lips. For example, avoid clamping your lips together and instead allow them to relax by slightly spreading your lips open. To keep your lips soft you can also try moisturizer and exfoliate them with sugar. It is also important that when learning how to kiss a girl or guy you yourself are approachable. People will avoid you if you convey bad body language. So smile, maintain eye contact, unfold your arms, and resist touching your face with your hands.

How to Kiss: First Kiss

Find out what it takes to get that first kiss.

When you’re ready to first kiss, a simple glance at their lips can be very rewarding. Whether you want to kiss a girl or guy make sure you have eye contact, and then momentarily allow your focus to drift down to their lips. Return your focus to meet their eyes and smile seductively. If you want to know how to kiss better this is one of the best kissing tips to follow.

There are several ways to approach that first kiss. Men, when attempting to kiss a girl, find as their confidence increases they can use their hands to gently guide their partner into a more favourable position. As you discover how to kiss, the most effective method is often simply just to lean in slightly and allow your partner to meet you.

How to Kiss: Beyond the First Kiss

Discover in depth step-by-step instructions on how to kiss.

When you kiss a girl / guy, the moment your lips meet, close your eyes and pucker your lips a little. Tenderly target your partner’s upper or lower lip and enjoy your first kiss together. Withdraw slightly from your partner’s face and slowly open your eyes. From this intimate position re-establish eye contact, smile a little and use your judgement on whether to continue beyond the first kiss. If the moment has passed, smile, withdraw further, and switch your focus elsewhere. If you are getting good vibes read on for more kissing tips on how to kiss a girl or guy.

Repeat the first kiss, but instead spread your lips so they interlock and go between your partner’s lips. When you kiss a girl or guy, in both situations you need to slightly add pressure by closing your lips then pulling away slowly. For those trying to get their first kiss, practice using your finger to determine how much pressure is necessary. You can find a range of more advanced kissing tips and full color step-by-step photos at Kissing 101, but one of my favourites is to alternate between kissing your partner’s upper lip as they kiss your lower lip and vice versa. For more advanced secrets on how to kiss read the next article on French kissing.

How to Kiss: Where to find more kissing tips

Almost all terrible kissers can learn how to kiss and become great kissers with a small amount of perseverance, practice, know-how and courage.

Now you know how to kiss and get your first kiss it’s time to explore detailed kissing tips on becoming the best kisser your partner has ever had. Read on at Kissing 101.

Become a Super-Kisser

by Michelle Penney

What's the difference between a kiss that goes flat and a kiss that tickles the toes? Some kisses you can feel tingle up your spine, while others feel like the mechanical meeting of lips.

Here's my list of the Top 5 Reasons that some kisses are super, while others end up duds.

1. Emotional connection.

If you kiss a guy or girl that you kind of like, then your kiss will be kind of nice. But if you kiss a guy or girl you REALLY like, then your kiss will be REALLY special. An emotional connection is crucial for an amazing kiss. When the physical pleasure of a kiss combines with the emotional pleasure of sharing an intimate moment, fireworks happen.

2. Great comfort level.

One of the great killers of the pleasure of kissing is nerves. The more nervous you are, the tenser you feel. Tension makes you stiff and unyielding - the complete opposite of what a great kisser should be! When you're anxious about the result of a kiss or self-conscious about whether you're doing it right, you won't be able to enjoy the moment like you should. Worse, your tension will get communicated to your partner. Relax and flow in the moment.

3. Ability to forget the world.

The top kisses seem to go on forever. Your mind is clear of everything but your partner's breath, responses, murmurs, and body against yours. But it can be hard to forget the world if you're in a noisy environment, being jostled by other people, or are in an uncomfortable position. For example, despite their popularity as makeout locations, cars are notoriously uncomfortable places to kiss. Too, if you're feeling self-conscious about your kissing technique or wondering if others are watching, you'll bring yourself out of the moment and back to earth. Clear your head the next time you kiss and let nothing else matter.

4. Imagination.

Great kissers don't just do what they do best; they adapt to their partner and experiment with different kinds of kisses. If your kissing repertoire consists of two styles - kiss and French kiss - then it may be time to explore the possibilities. Vary the pace and pressure of your kisses. Expand from the mouth and kiss the eyelids, neck, even nibble the ear. Be inventive.

5. Rhythm.

The best kisses have an ebb and flow. They start gently, become greedy, then allow a pause for breathing and meeting one another's eyes. A kiss is sometimes called a dance of the lips, and it's important to remember that kisses, like dances, must have a rhythm. Nothing is worse than someone who is so intent on kissing you that they don't allow you room to breath. Let your kiss find its natural rhythm. Allow it to warm up and eventually cool down. Always take time to reconnect with your partner through catching his or her eyes and breathing together.

If you really care about someone, are completely relaxed, there in the moment, and allow your kissing to find its natural rhythm and expression, you'll find that your kisses become much more intense and enjoyable.

Learn more tips and techniques like these in my book, Kissing 101. You'll learn step-by-step methods for becoming a fantastic kisser. It's completely illustrated, so there's no way you can go wrong! Avoid rejection by learning the signals that tell you to go or not go for a kiss. Become an expert in body language: interpret how your partner responds to your kiss with my handy guide. Whether you want to learn how to French kiss or what it would be like to kiss with a tongue ring, my complete guide to kissing tips and techniques has the answers! Check it out today at my website:

http://www.Kissing101.net

Happy kissing!

Michelle Penney

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About the author:

Michelle Penney is the author of “Kissing 101: Your Complete Guide To Kissing Tips and Techniques” Her witty light-hearted style and forthright approach to kissing techniques have helped tutor singles and couples of all ages with their kissing and intimacy issues and given them a much needed boost of confidence in kissing mastery.

"Kissing 101" has been teaching men and women how to give fantastic kisses and spice up their relationship with their partner since 2004. Its fully-illustrated guide leads you step-by-step through the most basic kisses to French kisses and more! You can learn more about how to become the sensual and memorable kisser of your dreams at:

http://www.Kissing101.net

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